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#161447 - 11/12/09 02:48 PM I have decided......
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that next week I will wake up every morning feeling thankful. Even if I hurt, I will be thankful. Yes, I may have some hard days...we are expecting some storms....but life is good. I just want to count my blessings because I know they will out number the problems w/AS.

I'm tired of letting this pain get the best of me. Even if I have to sit w/the heating pad a bit longer and I'm an hour late to work......I let the guilt of it get to me. No More!!!!

OK, so when I post on Monday that I can't move.......remind me what I am doing. LOL ;\)

Joyce

Now, when I post on Monday that I can't move.......remind me
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#161448 - 11/12/09 03:10 PM Re: I have decided...... [Re: joey]
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Great attitude Joyce thanks for the inspiration!
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#161452 - 11/12/09 03:58 PM Re: I have decided...... [Re: DJS]
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Good inspiration. Even though my life has changed and I can't do what I used to do a year ago, I know it could always be worse and to be thankful for what I CAN do, instead of focusing on the things I can't. Some days it's really hard, but it helps me to be grateful for the little things.

Thanks, Joyce!
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#161467 - 11/12/09 05:17 PM Re: I have decided...... [Re: TraceyH]
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Awesome Joyce, we all have so much to be thankful for.
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#161471 - 11/12/09 05:41 PM Re: I have decided...... [Re: tiabird]
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hello

you all have a great attitute! Keep your chins up and think possitive.

i have adopted a similiar approach trying to count my blessings. I think it can always be worse. I have even jotted down some of the good changes that have come out of slowing down. for example...i always have a hard time saying no when someone needs that "extra volunteer, or help a school event, or even family get togethers". but since I can't do as much as I used to, I do say "sorry I can't help with that." It gets easier. That way I can help out where I want and enjoy it.

we do have alot to be thankful for! thanks to all on this site!

blessings! :-)
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#161479 - 11/12/09 06:14 PM Re: I have decided...... [Re: kamom]
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Joyce I make it a habbit of that too. It is definitely good for the soul. May I suggest what my closest friend, my preacher's wife said to me when I was a teen. She told me to write a list of the bad things, then write another list of all the good things seperately: then throw away the list of the bad and keep the good list to remind you that day of all the good. It is a great reminder that even though we are in pain and suffering that there are still many things to rejoice about. Love you girl-

Edited by Jean Angel (11/12/09 06:15 PM)

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#161501 - 11/12/09 09:13 PM Re: I have decided...... [Re: Jean Angel]
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Good for you, Joyce. I think it does make all the difference. I realized I was always frowning or scowling so I decided that no matter what, I would put a smile on my face whenever I caught myself. Not a giant, idiot grin, but just a little Mona Lisa smile. It helps a lot and seems to relax my face, too.
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#161504 - 11/12/09 09:17 PM Re: I have decided...... [Re: mariposa]
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Excellent!



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#161876 - 11/18/09 11:07 AM Re: I have decided...... [Re: Spenser23]
joey Offline
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I have been tested the past three days......It's hard to feel thankful when you are in pain.

But here it goes.....I am thankful for my pain pills, even on the days they hardly touch the pain. I am thankful for my family that helps me and loves me when I am having "one of those days". I am especially thankful for my boss. I have been late every morning this week.....having a hard time in the mornings.....and he is understanding and reminds me to take it easy....but most of all, he has not fired me. That is something to very thankful about!!!!

Joyce - oh, and I'm thankful that I can come here and I am SO understood!!!!
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#161882 - 11/18/09 12:55 PM Re: I have decided...... [Re: joey]
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I am thankful to all of you reading this post, feeling what I feel every day and UNDERSTANDING it. So often it is hard for the people in our lives to really understand what we all go thru, even though they try their best and do what they can. It hasn't been long since I was diagnosed, but finding this website, reading everyone's posts and knowing I am not alone...brings me some stress relief and brings me to tears. I am not alone...you are not alone. Thanks to all of you for the support and encouragement you provide thru sharing your stories!

Love to you all...
Stand Tall...

Jessica
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