Spondylitis Association of America Forums General Discussion Women Only Message Board House cleaning

GTHINAHB: I can sympathize with you and the grandchildren.
I would love to have mine over more but it is so exhausting after they leave that it takes me a couple days to recoupe.
We had our Canadian Thanksgiving and of course we hosted it because my oldest daughter with the four kids won't take the initiative and my other daughter was 1 week over due with her first. Which we were Blessed to have a new baby boy in our family the day before Thanks giving.
My two sons and my husband do the dishes after the big meal which is so nice. But once everyone goes there is vacuuming,washing floors cleaning bathrooms etc which is so exhausting after a big meal prep. I think if I have to do Christmas I might have to cook the Turkey the day before.
Has anyone done that before?

I have. Also when I've been in a pretty bad flare and know that I just can't do it, I've bought the whole meal from HoneyBaked Ham or another restaurant that sells meals like that. I do make my own dressing because my daughter would totally miss that. She wants no one elses.

Do whatever makes life a bit easier. As much as I love family gatherings, its not enjoyable if you're totally in pain.

I always try to do as much in advance as possible. We usually cook a ham for Christmas. I cook it a few days ahead of time slice it up and freeze. I make pies the day before, and try to have all the yams, vegies and everything else ready so that on Christmas day all I have to do is heat everything up. The nice this is that I have time to visit with our family and enjoy the day. It's so much nicer that way.

Well, I am definately making my meal ahead next time.
I was feeling guilty that it wouldn't be fresh but the way I see it, at least it is a great meal.

Serola belts are wonderful to use to lessen sacroilitis pain. I use one whenever I do house work and do light gardening. I have also been known to sleep with it on! You can purchase them through any physiotherapists or chiropractors or even order one online. If you like wearing longer tops then the belt can fit underneath them over your trousers so no one notices.

Still with the belt it's best to pace yourself and sets realistic goals for the cleaning.