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Has anyone had their spouse take their child and leave because they just cant deal with a husband with AS? How do you get through this? I am in shock and really do not know what to do , or think or anything.
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My dear friend I can not express how sorry I am. I pray that the Lord comforts you and you feel His hands upon you. I pray the He softens her heart and fills her with His compassion, grace, and mercy.
I went through a divorce 10 years ago and know how painful it is. Please, feel free to e-mail or call me anytime.
Jay
NOTE: If you aint here to help row the boat then you are welcome to walk the plank.
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Jay I will be looking for a letter you sent me and giving you a call. I am feeling lower than I have ever felt. How people can be so cruel is beyond me. I am one of those people that would spend the next ten years sitting by a spouse in a coma because I made a vow in front of God and I thought it meant something. It really means nothing to people anymore. At this point I just want my daughter to be safe.
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Jay
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Still going to call just cant seem to talk without breaking down right now. That wont do either of us any good if I cant speak.
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Thakman , I wish I could say something to make it better for you..but I can only say that "I feel your pain". And remember, "when one door closes, another always opens". Just don't give up.
mike
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Thakman,in 93 my wife told me she wanted a divorce,I went with her to 3 different marriage counselors,I lost 40 pounds, one day the kids did not get off the school bus.I spent 2 days in the hospital with a heart monitar on.I finally decided
I had a life.I live in the house that I built for her.Man I still think about her,people change.
All I can tell you is take one day at a time.
No matter what anybody says your daughter knows how much you love her.We are praying for you.
Mike
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No worries. I was just letting you know that I'm available when you're ready. I'm just glad to see you still posting.
Jay
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Man, I appreciate these replys more than you guys know. It is a hard thing to go through. My little girl wont come see me but its not her fault. What a horrible thing to do to a child, to turn them against a parent who was'nt and is'nt a bad person. I guess she will come around or be gone forever. Either way I know the truth and know I have always done the right thing.
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We're here to help eachother. No worries, my friend.
Jay
NOTE: If you aint here to help row the boat then you are welcome to walk the plank.
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